Showing posts with label morality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label morality. Show all posts

Saturday, February 04, 2012

Just when you thought the world can't get any crazier, a Millionaire adopts his girlfriend.

In this bizarre, or as the headline of the attached article says 'surreal' predicament,  a 48 year old man adopts his 42 year old girlfriend in order to protect a big portion of his assets from a lawsuit he is facing.  Can he do this legally?  Are there any implications?

When you read the details in Alyshah's Hasham's story in The Toronto Star, dated February 3, 2012, you'll see that the man is being sued for a wrongful death of a 23 year old man killed in an accident.  It is alleged the driver, John Goodman, had a blood alcohol level double the allowed limit.  He is also charged with a number of other offenses including leaving the scene of the accident.  He could face up to 30 years in prison if found guilty in a trial that begins next month in Florida.

Goodman is very rich, both earned and inherited.  So he legally makes his girlfriend (of two years), his daughter.  As a result, she may have immediate access (she is over 35) to a third of a trust fund set up for his children.  The rest being left to his two children who are under 35 who can't access their funds just yet.  The fund is worth about $200 million.

Was this really an adoption of love for a child or just an adoption of convenience?  We presume the latter since the girlfriend is not a needy orphan.  The hypothesis is that the upcoming trial may well empty him of his own personal assets and thus he needed someone who could access the trust fund.

Furthermore, the judge in the case ruled to keep the trust fund out of the mix so that the litigants would not pursue an unreasonable amount of damages in the case.  Now their lawyers are appealing that decision.   Meanwhile the adoption stands legally as Florida state law permits adult adoptions if the birth parents and spouse (if there is one) of the individual agrees.

The attached article goes on to say, "Most adult adoptions are done to cement the bond between foster parents and foster children, or for inheritance or end-of-life matters."  And here's the bizarre part, "There appears to be no legal reason for a sexual relationship to cease between the now father and adopted daughter since the state’s incest laws only apply in the case of blood relations."  Welcome to America.


Some however think the adoption is in violation of the Florida adoption statutes, arguing it is an offensive abuse and manipulation of the law for financial gain.  One lawyer maintains, “The intent of the law is not to create a legal relationship but a parent-child relationship.” They liken the situation to being like "marrying someone for citizenship...This not a legitimate adoption.”


Partly because the adoption was also done in a different county of Florida from where the trial is being held, some are seeing it as “ethically unfortunate.”  I'd like to suggest it is also morally unacceptable.

The accused founded the International Polo Club Palm Beach in Wellington and has recently spent most of his time playing polo.   If justice were to be done in this case, in my humble opinion, the fund should stay out of the lawsuit, but remain in place for his own two children.  The girlfriend and he should get nothing from it.   But hey, this is America.  And Obama himself is likely trying to figure out how he can get his hands on Goodman's money.   Here's the article, you judge for yourself.

World News: Millionaire adopts girlfriend in ‘surreal’ legal move to allegedly protect assets - thestar.com
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Monday, October 10, 2011

Pedophilia, Entrapment, Legality, and Morals.

This story is another interesting one when viewed and analyzed from a worldview that may be different than most. What I am about to say regarding it is not intended to be exhaustive by any means. I just want to point out a few things in this story before you read all the details for yourself. Here are some things to consider:

1. The U.S. sets up a phony website to lure pedophiles. The luring supposedly draws people to Ontario, Canada -- my province. Before the site gets 'busted' by the bleeding heart organization, "The Smoking Gun" (owned by the Turner empire I believe, a real stalwart of conservatism -- not; he brings you CNN), the U.S. has enough evidence to convict four men, one already sentenced to 20 years and three to be sentenced later this month.

2. People are complaining that this portrays Ontario as a "haven for child-sex tourism". What matters is not what Ontario is portrayed as, but what it is. If it's not, then why all the fuss especially since the site got 140,000 hits in 19 months and landed four perverts to be charged and more.

3. Of course, there's the issue of how the site may "lure" innocent folks into "child-sex" by "mistake". If you got lured into "child-sex" on this, the authorities say this was not by accident. You had to intentionally want to meet children in this way really badly. (See the details in the article.)

4. The there's the issue of telling "lies". Welcome to "undercover police work". Without it, many of us would be a lot worse off than we are in our cities. Thank God for it. Don't cry, "not fair". There is not much fairness necessary for a convicted child-sex offender, whether he/she was successful or just "in the process of pursuit".

5. And then we have the 'moral' issue. Should a country like the U.S. be involved in catching its sordid criminals in this manner? Should a country like Canada being used in this way take it sitting down? Sorry, but what moral issue do you see? I see none. Except perhaps, the questioning of the morality of the bleeding heart liberals and others who would come to the aid of these degenerates, the legal systems that will desperately try to defend them, and maybe Canada, if it as a nation formally objects.  It would be immoral not to use every means possible to zero in any such human deviancy.  Let's stop playing games with the lives of children.  But you judge for yourself.

U.S. agents defend Ontario pedophile-luring ploy - Windsor - CBC News

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Saturday, October 01, 2011

Why Young People Can’t Think Morally Any More

It's simple. They don't have an understanding of what "moral" means. Most have never experienced a "moral dilemma". It's all about "feelings" and "a private matter".

And what's behind it? Well, Dennis Prager, the author of the article in the link, believes it is "secularism". While the left sees it as a blessing, Prager sees it as being terrible for society. I'll let you read the rest for yourself.

Why Young Americans Can’t Think Morally - Dennis Prager - National Review Online

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Thursday, January 27, 2011

Is Your Integrity Worth $12.4 Million? Even if you are a multi-million.

Here's a once in a lifetime story for those of us that had totally lost faith in all mankind. This will hold us over for a while. Yet, the cynics among us will say, "that's easy for him; he's a multi-millionaire." I don't know about you, but my experience in life tells me that the more one has, the more he/she likes to hold on to every cent, generally speaking.

Now, I'd suggest that Gil Meche, an injured pitcher with the Kansas City Royals was acting with true integrity and perhaps on a joint decision with his wife and family.  Maybe it was an expensive object lesson for a child.  Maybe it was a sense of morality and what's right.

Roger I. Abrams: Pigs Are Flying: Pitcher Gives Up $12.4 Million

 
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