Showing posts with label ethics. Show all posts
Showing posts with label ethics. Show all posts

Saturday, February 04, 2012

Just when you thought the world can't get any crazier, a Millionaire adopts his girlfriend.

In this bizarre, or as the headline of the attached article says 'surreal' predicament,  a 48 year old man adopts his 42 year old girlfriend in order to protect a big portion of his assets from a lawsuit he is facing.  Can he do this legally?  Are there any implications?

When you read the details in Alyshah's Hasham's story in The Toronto Star, dated February 3, 2012, you'll see that the man is being sued for a wrongful death of a 23 year old man killed in an accident.  It is alleged the driver, John Goodman, had a blood alcohol level double the allowed limit.  He is also charged with a number of other offenses including leaving the scene of the accident.  He could face up to 30 years in prison if found guilty in a trial that begins next month in Florida.

Goodman is very rich, both earned and inherited.  So he legally makes his girlfriend (of two years), his daughter.  As a result, she may have immediate access (she is over 35) to a third of a trust fund set up for his children.  The rest being left to his two children who are under 35 who can't access their funds just yet.  The fund is worth about $200 million.

Was this really an adoption of love for a child or just an adoption of convenience?  We presume the latter since the girlfriend is not a needy orphan.  The hypothesis is that the upcoming trial may well empty him of his own personal assets and thus he needed someone who could access the trust fund.

Furthermore, the judge in the case ruled to keep the trust fund out of the mix so that the litigants would not pursue an unreasonable amount of damages in the case.  Now their lawyers are appealing that decision.   Meanwhile the adoption stands legally as Florida state law permits adult adoptions if the birth parents and spouse (if there is one) of the individual agrees.

The attached article goes on to say, "Most adult adoptions are done to cement the bond between foster parents and foster children, or for inheritance or end-of-life matters."  And here's the bizarre part, "There appears to be no legal reason for a sexual relationship to cease between the now father and adopted daughter since the state’s incest laws only apply in the case of blood relations."  Welcome to America.


Some however think the adoption is in violation of the Florida adoption statutes, arguing it is an offensive abuse and manipulation of the law for financial gain.  One lawyer maintains, “The intent of the law is not to create a legal relationship but a parent-child relationship.” They liken the situation to being like "marrying someone for citizenship...This not a legitimate adoption.”


Partly because the adoption was also done in a different county of Florida from where the trial is being held, some are seeing it as “ethically unfortunate.”  I'd like to suggest it is also morally unacceptable.

The accused founded the International Polo Club Palm Beach in Wellington and has recently spent most of his time playing polo.   If justice were to be done in this case, in my humble opinion, the fund should stay out of the lawsuit, but remain in place for his own two children.  The girlfriend and he should get nothing from it.   But hey, this is America.  And Obama himself is likely trying to figure out how he can get his hands on Goodman's money.   Here's the article, you judge for yourself.

World News: Millionaire adopts girlfriend in ‘surreal’ legal move to allegedly protect assets - thestar.com
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Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Ethics and "Females vs. Perverts" Controversy

More ranting by yours truly as I find things in the news today that just irk me.  Like these next two stories.

Ethics

The Palestinian "envoy" to Canada is going home.  Why you ask?  Because we (Canada, that is) caught her tweeting a link to a video which we felt was offensive to Jews.  The Palestinians agreed to recall Linda Sobeh Ali after our Foreign Affairs Minister gave her a "dressing down" according to the Toronto Star.

What was offensive about the video of a poem being recited?  Well, apparently the poem was calling people "to a war that (raze) the injustice and oppression and destroy(s) the Jews" -- or so said the English subtitles.

Good for Canada.  More countries should take more stands like this.  But the envoy herself? -- Well, she gave a most lame excuse while expressing regret about the video.  She said, according to CTV via the Toronto Star, that she had "not actually viewed the video before tweeting a link to it".  Now, that's stupid.  And because she should know better and be aware of her position and anything that would be considered offensive, it was also a matter of ethics.  Recall was the least we could hope for.  She's lucky.

Of course, why we even bother with a Palestinian envoy beats me, but hey, let's play nice.   Unlike the author of the next story who wants it all her way.  Take a read . . .

"Females vs. Perverts" Controversy

Columnist Heather Mallick is a little excited.  She's angry at the police.  If it was a video account, I'm sure some of us would see venom coming forth.   The story has to do with the fact that two girls claimed some pervert on the subway was trying to look up their short private-school skirts (or kilts).  In trying to protect the girls and maybe the school, the officer who investigated the matter tried to suggest that perhaps students may wish to change at school before venturing unto Toronto's subways to head home and vice-versa in the mornings.  The principal took the suggestion to heart and relayed the message to parents as a precautionary action.  And now Mallick has him in her sights as well.

Look, there is no excuse for perversion.  Absolutely none.  But here's the bottom line for me as a parent and now a grandparent.   I accept the fact that there are perverts out there.  I accept the fact that we can't afford a guard on every bus or subway car.  I accept the fact that those young girls look very seductive to the kind of guy like the one who was stalking Shania Twain lately.  In short, they would appear pretty attractive to all perverts and maybe some of us who aren't and know better.   (By the way, Mallick in her eagerness to use every word she was allowed in the column to go after the police and the perverts, neglected to tell us how old the girls were.)  Yes, I know they're students -- but they don't always act, dress, talk or look like just students.  Of course, Mallick's point is that none of that should matter.  Perverts should keep their hands to themselves.

And I agree with her on that last point -- that perverts should keep their hands and their thoughts to themselves.  But not on her previous point -- that none of that should matter.  Oh, yes, I promised you the bottom line for me.  Well, here it is:

I would rather ask my grand-daughter to change her clothes at school before coming home on the subway and have her alive and untouched, than, like Mallick, insist that police are wrong with their suggestions.  Or worse still, demand that all perverts "avoid attacking people in order not to be arrested" and have my grand-daughter attacked, molested, sexually assaulted, or even dead.  Her argument only shows that Mallick just does not understand our society; she leaves no room for the fact that every pervert can't be watched every minute; and she knows nothing about the psychology of a rapist and a pedophile.  I don't care what other part of her body she chooses to cover or not, but I would strongly recommend that she get a nice mask for her mouth.  The woman is so out of touch with what we call "balance".

If you really want to read her side of it, go ahead.  Here it is:

http://www.thestar.com/opinion/editorialopinion/article/1072165--mallick-why-dress-down-for-perverts

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Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Helping Your Children Think About Ethics

First we need to want to do this. Then we could use all the help we can get. But never under-estimate the power of an ethically-minded and ethically-acting parental role model.

Author Q&A: Wrestling with what's right | The Portland Press Herald / Maine Sunday Telegram

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Wednesday, June 29, 2011

3 Big Christian Bodies Reach Agreement in Evangelism Ethics

This is big news for those that believe in witnessing.  While you may only support one of the three big groups that make up the three parties who have agreed to this historic document, you will have to agree they make some pretty good points of "how then we shall witness" in today's very complex and multi-religious world.  It's well worth the read.   Most, if not all, of it is based on Jesus' teachings.

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3 Main Bodies in Christianity Reach 'Historic' Agreement in Evangelism Ethics�, Christian News



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Wednesday, March 09, 2011

Musings . . . on a Thursday Evening: Love, Hatred Education, Research Ethics, Corruption,

1. Lessons of Hate in Islamic Schools in Britain.  Here is a most interesting account of what is being taught in some schools in the U.K. as shown by the BBC and reported by the New York Times.  Take a look at: http://www.nytimes.com/2010/11/23/world/europe/23britain.html?_r=2&hp  Notice the response or lack thereof from the Saudi Arabian embassy.  Notice the position of Britain's ministry of education.  And notice how they're always saying, "everything is out of context".   Well, when you have some much overlap in what's 'out of context' all the time, maybe that becomes the context.

2. Please participate in our Study: We inject you with Syphilis.  Last year we learned that there was a study done 65 years ago that wasn't ethical.  Now, the U.S. Ethics Committee is probing that study in which subjects were dosed with Syphilis.  The question is "can this happen again?"  Some bioethicists think it can.  Take a look here: http://www.globalethics.org/newsline/2011/03/07/ethics-syphilis/ .

3. Who would have thought Abraham Lincoln had a crystal ball to today?  Take a look at this quote of his on "An Era of Corruption" as quoted by the Institute of Global Ethics' "Ethics Newsline".  Here's the link: http://www.globalethics.org/newsline/2011/03/07/an-era-of-corruption/ .  How could one man be so bang on?

4. "In the end, it is love . . . "  I John 4:16 in the Bible says, "We have known and believed the love that God has for us."  I find this verse most interesting.  When you 'know' something, you can 'believe' it.  An that is how it is with God's love.  Charles F. Stanley writes on this verse:  "In the end, it is love -- and especially the infinite, unconditional, forgiving love of God our heavenly Father -- that creates in us a feeling of value and worth.  If Jesus, God's Son, went to the cross or us, surely we are worthy. . . . If God created us, redeemed us, and desires to call us His children forever, surely we are of great importance to Him.  The answer to feelings of unworthiness is love. . . . A love that is based not upon what a person does, but upon who a person is -- a beloved child of almighty God."   When you find a person who loves you for who you are (not what you do, especially for them), you have found some serious love.  Those that have found God, have found the ultimate in "love".


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