Showing posts with label false accusation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label false accusation. Show all posts

Friday, May 22, 2015

Stand Your Ground (A Cry for Justice)


Stand Your Ground (A Cry for Justice)



I agreed to review this DVD because I believe there will soon come a time, if it has not come already, when each of us, will need to “stand our ground”.  What sane, dedicated to God and family person does not, once challenged, want to stand up for his/her family, his/her rights, and his/her faith?

This movie depicts the real life experience of Jackie Carpenter, a wife and mother who had to do just that when it seemed “the system” was taking care of itself -- at the expense of the truth and her son.

In the process, Carpenter feels she is forced to take on not only her husband who prefers not to make any trouble, her advisors, her son’s lawyer, and ultimately God Himself.  She tells God that if He won’t “fix this” when He hears the “cry for justice” [which also happens to be the movie’s sub-title], she will.

It is at this point that she may have felt as abandoned as Christ may have felt on the cross when He uttered the words, “My God, My God, why hast thou forsaken me?” It was not an easy place for Jesus to have been and it is never an easy place for any of His followers to be – to feel like that. Understanding that God is still there and cares very much requires great commitment and dedication – a faith that you do not get until you have to be there. Carpenter has to come to grips with her options. She can fight this alone with her own human capabilities and knowledge or she can let God be God and participate as a child of His while still fulfilling her role as a mother and watching her son suffer.

Trusting God and accepting what He allows are two different things as Carpenter finds out. And some people handle it bette than others.

The main actors are Drew Matthews (the falsely accused son); Francine Locke (the mother); Kelsi Chandler (the daughter-in-law); and Cameron Arnett (the brilliant defense lawyer). But do not watch this movie if you insist on perfection when it comes to the films you watch. There are no Oscar nominations waiting to be announced. Some of the lines, especially those taken from the real story, sound corny and no award-seeking writer would ever have proposed them. I felt the music did not always fit the scene and was quite disjointed. But once you get over these expectations that you are accustomed to, you will find a gem from reality – and most often real life is more awkward than how Hollywood portrays it. Here is a low budget film with a great message. You can knock it or you can ask yourself, “Am I prepared to go through what Jackie Carpenter went through? And what if in my case, the results were different? Would I survive – my faith, my family, myself?”

The movie was issued in 2014 by Triple Horse Studios and distributed in 2015 by Phase 4 Films.  It is now available on DVD.  Watch it alone, with your spouse, and even with your teenagers.  

    -- Ken B. Godevenos, http://www.accordconsulting.com , Toronto, 15/05/17  

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Friday, July 01, 2011

Joseph’s Brothers Are Surprised With the Accusation - Genesis 44:6-8

So he overtook them and spoke these words to them.  And they said to him, “Why does my lord speak such words as these?  Far be it from your servants to do such a thing.  Behold, the money which we found in the mouth of our sacks we have brought back to you from the land of Canaan.  How then could we steal silver or gold from your lord’s house?”

Joseph’s house steward catches up to Joseph’s brothers and tells them what his master had told him to say.  Needless to say they were stunned and I assume somewhat fearful of what might happen if the accusation of their stealing Joseph’s cup was true.  Yet, as can be seen from their response, they did not believe it possible.

The brothers basically said, “Look what we’ve already done.  We brought back the money you put in there last time.  Does that seem conducive with a desire to steal from you?”  And of course they were right.  There was no logic whatsoever to the accusation, not only because of what the brothers had already done (that is, show their honesty by returning the money that had been placed in their sacks of grain on their first trip from Egypt), but also because it just was not true.

Sometimes life is just like that.  We get falsely accused of not only something that does not make sense, but also is totally untrue.  Has that ever happened to you?  It has to me and I know both how frustrating it can be and if not checked, how angry and irate I can get about it.  Thankfully, in many cases, such accusations happen to most of us under circumstances that we can still have some control over or some access to justice.  Other times it happens with people that we feel, rightly or wrongly, really do not matter significantly in our lives.  This is not the right attitude for a Christian to take, but let’s face it sometimes it is true.  Let me give an example: An irate driver makes a very rude gesture in my direction as he passes me while I am going the speed limit in a school zone during school hours, just because he’s in a hurry.  Clearly, I have been falsely accused, but I don’t worry about it because chances are I will never see that driver again.

All our situations are not that simple to deal with.  Yet, go to the other extreme and imagine for a moment those that are falsely accused and persecuted in situations where they have no or little power whatsoever.  Think of children in abusive homes, individuals in abusive relationships, employees in slave-like working conditions, believers in Christian intolerant countries, and so on.  We need to be forever mindful of such and lift them up in prayer as well as act in their defense.

Once again, what really matters in all circumstances of false accusation is how we react. Or more importantly “Who” we let control our emotions related to that reaction.  Are we demonstrating a Godly attitude?  Are we relying fully on God’s protection even under false accusation?   For me, the basic strategic question in these situations is this, “Am I prepared to let God be my Chief Defense Attorney?”  That does not mean I will not try to present the truth and help those involved see another perspective, but it does mean that ultimately I depend on God to clear me, either now or in some cases, much later.  How are you and I doing in this area of being falsely accused?

Next time, we will see how Joseph’s brothers reacted.  (You may want to sign up to make sure you don't miss the next episode of our study in Genesis.)
 
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