Showing posts with label Advice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Advice. Show all posts

Thursday, April 24, 2014

The Lasting Impact of Jethro’s Risk -- Exodus 18:24-27:


So Moses listened to his father-in-law, and did all that he had said.  And Moses chose able men out of all Israel, and made them heads over the people, leaders of thousands, of hundreds, of fifties and of tens.  And they judged the people at all times; the difficult dispute they would bring to Moses, but every minor dispute they themselves would judge.  Then Moses bade his father-in-law farewell, and he went his way into his own land.
 
Because of the advice that Jethro gave Moses, the way he delivered it, and his caution that it only be accepted if God told Moses to accept it as well, Moses listened to his father-in-law.  When I was younger and people did not understand me or like what I said, I used to think that the problem lay strictly with them.  “It was the receiver’s fault, not the speaker’s,” I would argue.  Now I know I was wrong.  You see the point of me (or anyone else for that matter) giving advice to someone you love is for him or her to accept your advice.  So why would I not want to say it in a way that augments the probability of them doing so?  Why would I not want to phrase my advice in way that shows them the value of what I am suggesting for them, and for those that matter to them?  And finally if I really believed in the advice I am giving, that it is indeed in accordance with what I believe God wants for them, why would I not want to have them ascertain that very thing from God Himself, leaving the matter of one’s acceptance strictly to God and the individual involved?  There is much we can learn from Jethro’s counsel to Moses, but also from the process that he employed to deliver it.  As a result, the text tells us Moses did all that Jethro had recommended for him to do.  Jethro succeeded in the purpose I believe God had laid on his heart to achieve.
It appears the people saw the good in all that Moses did and lived by rules he established for them in the matter of governance and dispute resolution.  Clearly when God lays a task to be carried out in the heart of someone, and he/she succeeds, the blessing is felt not only by those directly involved but sometimes entire nations.  What has God laid on your heart today?  Are you able to follow through and deliver for Him?
And Aside: Let us for a moment consider Moses’ wife Zipporah about which we will write more when covering Exodus 19.  You will remember that when Jethro arrived at Moses’ camp in the wilderness, Moses greeted him, but there is no reference to his greeting Zipporah or his sons.  Did he ignore her?  We are not sure.  But we also do not know, at this point in scripture at least, whether or not Zipporah and the boys remained with Moses when Jethro left.  The Bible is silent on all this.  It appears that the descendants of Moses played only minor parts in the history of the Jewish people and God had focused strictly on Moses to accomplish His will at this time.  
This 18th chapter of Exodus ends with Moses saying good-bye to his father-in-law who had come to visit him in the wilderness.  Earlier in the scriptures, God arranged for Moses to become related to Jethro through marriage.  Then God used Jethro to impact Moses perhaps more so than any other human being had impacted him to date.  People often come into our lives for a purpose that God has in mind.  We are either the one who has to carry out what God laid on our hearts to share with others, or we are the one who has to hear what God has to say to us through others.  Who is in your life right now and why are they there?  Or, whose life are you in right now and why are you there?
Clearly what Jethro was able to accomplish made a difference.  It made a difference to Moses, his son-in-law, allowing him to lead the people of Israel for many years without getting burned-out.  It made a difference to how the people of Israel survived their years in the wilderness and how they slowly became established as a people right up to the nation of Israel today.  Much of their governance and structure originated from Jethro’s advice to Moses.  And it made a difference to the world as it has adopted many of the same principles in the way it conducts its affairs at various levels of government, in its commercial organizations, its military units, and even its judicial systems.  All this started with Jethro caring enough for his son-in-law to take a risk and offer him godly advice.
My prayer for us is that we consider what risk God wants us to take with whom today.  Who knows, our success may impact the world.
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Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Jethro’s 10 Management Recommendations are Classic -- Exodus 18:19b-23


“You be the people’s representative before God, and you bring the disputes to God, then teach them the statutes and the laws, and make known to them the way in which they are to walk, and the work they are to do.  Furthermore, you shall select out of all the people able men who fear God, men of truth, those who hate dishonest gain; and you shall place these over them, as leaders of thousands, of hundreds, of fifties and of tens.  And let them judge the people at all times; and let it be that every major dispute they will bring to you, but every minor dispute they themselves will judge.  So it will be easier for you and they will bear the burden with you.  If you do this thing and God so commands you, then you will be able to endure, and all these people also will go to their place in peace.”
 
Having prepared both himself and his son-in-law to whom he was about to give some advice, Jethro is now ready to share his recommendations with Moses.  After drafting my thoughts for this section, I noticed quite unintentionally that Jethro shared 10 recommendations with Moses as to how to govern the people of Israel.  With appropriate adaptation, we can apply these recommendations to our nation, to our organizations, and to our churches.
Recommendation No. 1 Be the people’s representative before God.  That has got to be the shortest and the best job description of a Christian CEO I have ever seen.  Just ‘be’ the people’s representative before God. Do not think of yourself as the boss, others will come to see you as that on their own and they will accept it better.  And remember, Who your own ‘Boss’ is.  Second, the purpose of your leadership is not about goals, products, services, finances, etc.  It is about people, first and foremost.  Third, remember that as a representative, you yourself are one of them.  You are not better, and relative to your Boss, you are not smarter.  You are one of those you represent, but you happen to have been given a different opportunity because of the way God wired you.  Finally, your key role is to draw upon the ultimate Source of wisdom and justice.  You (and those you place in subordinate leadership positions) are simply a conduit between the people and God, presenting Him with their challenges (family, church, organization, and country) that they face.  Recognize your role as such and then act accordingly.
Recommendation No. 2 Bring their disputes to God.  I know this sounds much like the first recommendation but I would submit that it is not.  Recommendation No. 1 speaks of who the leader is.  This recommendation speaks of what the leader does.  As a leader, you are to actual lay the challenges and disputes that people have before God’s throne and trust Him with the solution.  You need not fear the outcome or that He cannot handle them.  Hudson Taylor, that great famous early missionary to China, would tell you that his greatest secret for success was his ability to “turn his problems over to Jesus” and then leave them under His care.  As a leader and representative of those people looking to you for wisdom, direction, care, fairness, justice, and so much more, you need to simply take those problems “before God”.  When I was starting to learn that, and practiced it more and more, two things happened in my own leadership.  I enjoyed my work and my life much more and I could sleep at night much better.  There may often be a temptation to address brand new challenging issues yourself, but I caution you not to.  Doing so may result in two undesirable outcomes.  First, you will not necessarily have the best answer to the challenge. Secondly, you may get into the habit of “going it alone” – without God.  Both can have serious consequences.  (Note: I am not saying there are no problems that you should not be able to handle from experience or from your own knowledge of God’s Word; there are.  And Jethro’s list allows for that, as we will see shortly.)
Recommendation No. 3 Teach the people the statutes and laws. In the world of work, arbitrators who decide cases between employers and employees or unions have a rule of thumb: did the employer make his/her rules well known on a regular basis to the employees?  If he/she had, then the action that they may have taken against an employee for breaking the rules may be more justified.  While ignorance of the law may not be an excuse, certainly breaking the law when you know it, presents a harder case to defend.  But Jethro did not want Moses to teach his people the laws and statutes, just so that they could break them and be punished.  On the contrary, Jethro sensed God wants us to know them so that we will know what is required of us in order to live at peace with our Maker and our fellow man.
Recommendation No. 4 Teach them how to walk or live their lives – everything they needed in order to accept themselves, to carry out their associations with others, and to enjoy their relationship with God.  Life was hard in the wilderness; it was different than in Egypt.  New ways of interacting were critical to the survival of the group.  It is no different today, as the world evolves so quickly, as life becomes faster and faster – we, especially as believers, need to know how best to ‘walk’ in the midst of our ever-changing cultures.
Recommendation No. 5 Teach them what work they are to do.  Jethro recommended that Moses assign jobs to individuals.  We do not know if that meant every man, woman, and child – but certainly it covered all the men.  And if this was the case, realistically it could only be done as he implemented some of the other recommendations involving delegation that Jethro gave him.  It is interesting, however, that as a leader, Moses was to advised to provide jobs for people because Jethro realized that people needed a means whereby to contribute to their society.  God has made us in a way which requires us to be busy, employ our God-given talents and abilities, and bring forth results.  After all, we are made in the Creator’s image.  Leaders both in general life (politics), at work (industry) and in our churches (faith) need to give people work to do.
Recommendation No. 6 Select able men who fear God, are truthful, and hate dishonest gain.  Wow, do we ever need this today.  We need it in every aspect of our life – government, industry, education, research, retail, and in our churches.  You can read the political scandals that come out almost daily in the media to know we do not have it in our government.  You only need to read one issue of the Institute of Global Ethics’ newsletter to know we do not have it in industry, education, or research as much as we need it.  And certainly we hear about enough scandals in the leadership of our churches, that we know we lack it there.  But as a minimum, let us develop a means of selection that ensures the men and women we pick to lead our various institutions, especially our churches, are indeed qualified in the basic requirements suggested to Moses by Jethro.
Recommendation No. 7 Place these selected individuals over others as leaders.  Jethro realized the importance of delegation of authority.  Many top managers and lots of pastors do not.  Not only is delegation important for the person that you are giving an opportunity to show his/her leadership skills and to be aptly occupied in contributing to the process or the end product/goal, but as we see from the recommendations of Jethro that follow, it is also a God-given instruction that is good for the delegator.
Recommendation No. 8 Establish a governance structure, especially where the numbers are large.  Jethro recommended that Moses put these able leaders in charge of ten others (a good span of control as we call it in the Human Resources field), and then add leaders at higher levels appropriately so that all the work will get done and each person will have someone that is taking care of them even if they are a leader themselves.  This works for churches as well.  Imagine the pastor being responsible for the welfare, development and spiritual and personal oversight of ten associate pastors or elders, who each are responsible for ten other church volunteer leaders/families, and so on throughout the whole congregation.  Nobody would fall through the cracks.  If you were away one week, you would get a call from your leader who did not see you on Sunday.  He/she would know whether you were okay or sick, or just angry, etc.  Through a system akin to this, the whole church could be cared for.   People would feel responsible for their charges and all of us would be cared for.
Recommendation No. 9 Let these leaders actually make decisions (judgments) that involve the people, within their scope of authority and responsibility and let them escalate more critical decisions up the line to the top.  This was great advice from Jethro to Moses.  This is the principle upon which much of our decision-making takes place, whether it is in our businesses or our military.  In fact, our court system works in the same way, with the added process of appeals that can be made to a higher court by the litigants.  Moses could not possibly make every decision for all the Israelites.  A senior pastor cannot possibly make every decision for every program or ministry in his/her church.  Unfortunately, some try.
Recommendation No. 10 Let these leaders bear the burden of leadership with you.  People want to be well utilized.  People want to help their leader, their boss, and their pastor.  Let them.  You do not have to be a superhero all by yourself.  I have always felt that a leader that wants to do it all by his or herself, is getting awfully close to being an autocrat, rather than a motivator and influencer.
The Benefits of Heeding Jethro’s Recommendations  Jethro basically said to his son-in-law Moses that if he followed his recommendations (obeyed his instructions), he will end up enduring as a leader.  He will last longer, he will be able to withstand the pressures of leadership, he will enjoy his work, and above all, he will not burnout.  But note Jethro was not just asking Moses to obey him simply because he was his father-in-law.  No, rather Jethro says you only need to obey me if “God so commands you”.  That says a lot about how we should decide whether or not to obey someone who appears to give us wise counsel.  But it also says a lot of the wise counsel giver.  Moses had to know his father-in-law’s advice was in accordance with God’s will for his own life.  And Jethro knew that if God did not agree with what he was telling Moses, his advice would be of no real help.
But not only was Moses to benefit from advice that agrees with God’s desire for his life as a leader, but the text goes on to say through the words of Jethro that the people will be benefit as well for they shall live in peace.  Is that not the goal of every leader for each of his followers – that they should live in peace and prosper?
If you are a leader today – in a business or in a church, adopt Jethro as your own personal counselor and heed his advice.  Take a look at his ten recommendations and see if there is any area in your leadership that could benefit from your application of his sound and Godly advice.
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